For some reason, this fall God arranged for me to attend two women’s retreats. For some of you, this would be natural and exciting. For me, this is a bit stretching. I’m more of an introvert— and at one of these retreats, I hardly know a soul. I am one who could easily find an excuse to attend neither weekend and be just fine with that. After all, since my husband and I manage Jonah Ministries, we host retreats ten months out of the year. Of all people, I KNOW how to do these events! What I’ve realized I’m not so good at is NOT running the retreat, but just attending it.
This little retreat predicament I find myself in brings pause to me. Why, after all, am I sold on hosting retreats and why did I attend two this month?
1. I find value in spending time with women I’ve known for years.
2. I am anxious to meet more of the women I worship with every Sunday.
3. I am blessed to attend each retreat with one of my adult daughters.
4. I get to go for long walks on the beach.
5. I truly desire to meet God there.
6. I can stay up late and giggle with the women, or go to bed early and get some much-needed rest
7. I like to spend non-church time with these women so I can hear more about them personally, their families, what makes them tick, and which of them really seek to know Jesus.
8. Perhaps I can even encourage one of them.
What does “retreat” even mean? A few definitions: to move away, move back, draw back, back away, run away, recoil, withdraw, leave, give ground, flee, advance, or hideaway, sanctuary, refuge.
So true. My excuses for staying home are feeble, compared with the chance to withdraw a bit, leave my busy life, give ground to Jesus, and find sanctuary and refuge in a place (no matter where it is) that is set up to minister straight to my heart and womanly needs.
Oh, it’s time to run. My daughter just bounced back into the room we’re sharing after being prayed for, having great conversations with new friends and ready to go for an espresso with me.
Is it your turn now?
-Beki